I used to be fat

Well so far not so good on the resolutions hahahah but that's pretty much expected. I am having a hard time getting my sleep schedule in order. But i'm not giving up! I just recently saw a show on Mtv(I know I know) it's called "I used to be fat." I found it more inspiring than biggest loser and healthier. I used to get inspired after watching a biggest loser episode. Until it started turning into shameless product plugs and and people exercising until they puked. It just isn't healthy the way they do it. Those contestants, sure they lose the weight but they lose it too fast usually resulting in large amounts of extra sagging skin. Not to mention Jillian Michaels is a monster of a woman. On I used to be fat, it basically takes one individual. Usually someone 18 who just graduated high school who has had weight issues for a while and wants to change before going off to college. They get paired with one personal trainer who sets them up. They are given a giant calender with numbered pages for however many days they have left in summer to lose weight. Each day they rip a page to reveal the count down. It inspired me because I could actually relate to some of these people. Granted I've been out of high school for 7 years but I still share a lot of their struggles. But seeing that the two girls I've seen so far were much larger than I and the great results they had in a matter of months. Made me feel like I can really do this. Now if I can just get to bed before 5 am! uhg!
Here's the promo check out the show:

I Used To Be Fat - MTV Shows

Happy 2011!

Happy New Years to All!!!!
Time for the resolutions we all fail to keep. I for one am going to try my best this year to keep mine. It's all about not setting the goal too high. Or setting one easy goal and one hard one. If you accomplish the easy one it might give you a extra boost of confidence and you can achieve the hard one. If that makes sense hahahah. For instance, this year my resolution is to quit being such a neigh sayer. I gripe a lot about whats wrong in my life. But haven't put much effort in fixing it. That can be easily fixed. The hard one is one everyone makes and never keeps. I need to get in shape! Uhg I'm so tired of being a fatty. And this year this has got to change. I need to get my sleep schedule under control again so I can start getting up and walking. I also need to get a job so that I can afford to buy healthier foods. The getting the job part might be a little harder than any of those. But I haven't given up yet! This new year will be better! Not to say 2010 was all bad. I did get married and what not. But it's also the year I got laid off :( But it's ok it's also the year I got out of that hole of a job. :D it's all about perspective. And this year I hope to be a more positive me. Here I come 2011!

Holiday Season is all about being with family right?

It's been a while. Not too much has happened to me personally but we have had a few Holidays pass. Thanksgiving was good. I hadn't spent it with my relatives in a long time. But my cousins wanted a family gathering so we all went to my grandmas house. It was good, so I thought. My grandma did make it awkward at least once that day. But we got passed it and the night went on. I was hoping my parents enjoyed themselves enough we could do it again. In the past my parents did most of the work and got burnt out. So it sort of pushed them away from family gatherings on holidays. Or family gatherings in general really. It never really bothered my siblings and I because we were already older when they stopped. And it was nice having just our family and our significant others spending a nice calm evening together, no stress. And my parents were able to enjoy the Holidays. As I have gotten older and living a more adult life. I started realizing just how much time we have lost with the rest of our family. So I was excited for our Thanksgiving plans. I had hoped it would change my parents opinion on family gatherings. Especially because everyone worked together. All my dad had to do was cook the turkey. But unfortunately when I talked to them about it later they remained the same. They said they did it this time for the cousins but they probably wont next year. But we are welcome to decided what we will do. It made me think, that is true. I used to think well I can't go see these relatives unless the whole family goes because thats how it was when we were kids. But now. I am 24 and I am married and my husband and I can go see them whenever we want. We can also stop by and visit on holidays or birthdays and special occasions if we want. It just hadn't occurred to me all this time hahaha I just miss the family togetherness. My husbands family has managed to keep that strong. So it's always nice to go visit them on holidays. But it's also a reminder of what our family has let go of because of some bitterness and lack of energy. My parents do work very hard to provide for three adults that should be able to provide for themselves by now. But times are tough. Plus they have to support and provide for each other. And im sure they have made a lot of sacrifices. I know they've made sacrifices. So I understand where they are coming from. They are tired. I think things will change when some of us have kids. Because then the cycle starts all over again. There will be new little ones and they will need to know aunts and uncles and grand parents and greats. Things will change eventually. Lets hope the economy changes soon so we can get off unemployment and start a family. I know it will get complicated too. It's already more complicated now that im married. Because now I have to split my time with my family so Allen gets to have a fair amount of time with his. It's easier right now because I can see mine whenever I want. I still live with them. But his are all over. And he doesnt get to see them often because it takes gas and we need money for gas but then we dont make much money....yada yada. So we cant go out to see them everyday. It's hard especially because each person of course would want to spend the whole holiday with their own family. But we also dont want to spend it away from each other. So we manage time. Most of the time I spend most the day with my family then we head off to his in the evening. It's all a learning process and a part of life. My mom reminds me time and time again that her and my dad knew this day would come. And are not hurt when we have to leave. We are adults and have to make these choices. And they understand because they had to do the very same when they got married and had kids. This Christmas and Christmas Eve were kind of bitter sweet. Things didnt go as planned. What usually happens is Allen and I go to his parents house on Christmas Eve and Allen stays the night while I go home so we can wake up with our families. Then he opens presents in the morning with his fam heads to my house we all open gifts here and there you go. Well this year things got changed. My siblings made other plans. First off we had to do secret santa sense no one could really afford to buy gifts for everyone this year. Once we decided on a price limit we also decided to do a white elephant swap and an ornament swap. so we had those plans set. I figured we would have a fun Christmas day. But then Turns out my sister was going to Modesto to visit her friends family on Christmas so she was coming Christmas Eve. Im not gonna lie it did put a damper on our plans. But then I thought alright fine we will do the swaps and then go to Allens folks place. But no her and her friend wanted us to do our secret santa then too. I said no several times because then what did we have for Christmas Morning? Nothing? She is the one who chose to not spend it with us. But I eventually caved because I have this need for everyone to be happy. Uhg I regret it now because it made us later than we already were to Allens place. It was bitter sweet because we did have a good time but all night I kept thinking oh yeah but we will have nothing to do tomorrow :( So it was getting late and I could tell Allen was getting upset because he was getting text from family members wondering if he was going to come any more and he hates making them wait on us for dinner. I do sympathize but he is still having to learn like I have many times when I sacrifice my plans that things don't always go as we want them to. But it usually works out ok in the end. Especially with my family we are never on time :0/ but we always seem to still make it. And plans just work out. The problem is they are all so busy that I ask a month in advance what are we doing on this holiday? Then my parents say oh probably nothing we are too tired. Then like the day before after we already made plans with Allen's family that's when my family decide they are doing something after all. So then our plans change. And it is a big mess. So of the events on Christmas Eve our schedule was messed up. My sister and her friend got to our house like 3 hours late, we did our swaps then they guilted me into doing the secret santa. So that took even more time. I think the last straw was right when we were about to leave Allen tells me that Chase our wonderful mutt has eatin a special Sugar Free treat I had worked hard making for Allen's dad. I spent all day baking. I baked this treat regular ones for everyone else but I wanted to make Allen's dad something he could enjoy. Because he is diabetic he cant have much delicious treats. I feel bad when we are all sitting around eating cake or candy and he has the same sugar free treats. Which I know he loves but I figured he would enjoy something different. And Chase just happened to eat about two dozen sugar free pumpkin empanadas. I was livid. I could have punch that dog in the face. I think I even said something about getting rid of him. I was so angry I just wanted to cry. Everyone felt so bad. They had all seen how hard I worked. They offered to help me make more but we had to go. I just remember texting my mom on the way and telling her about how I felt. She knew and apologized. It wasn't her fault and I let her know. I was just so upset and felt like I had nothing to look forward to on Christmas morning now. But the rest of the night and the following morning proved me wrong. I had to process everything. I asked myself why am I convincing my mind to think I got cheated out of Christmas with family? So it was Christmas Eve not Christmas day? We still did the same thing we would have done. Plus I never even considered what Allen's family had for me. Mainly because i'm never there on Christmas morning. I actually ended up spending the night at his parents this year. Now that we are married they allowed it. I did because once we left my house my sister and her friend left shortly after, my brother went to his girlfriends and my other sister I think had plans as well. And it was fun :) we stayed up late and slept on the couches. Woke up in the morning and opened gifts. I never expect anything from them but they are always nice and get me presents. Thoughtful ones at that. Then I was able to come home and Allen and I swapped the gifts we had for each other. Which were awesome!!!! I love him so much :D hahahah So I was proven wrong. I did have something to look forward to. And now I have even more family to spend the holidays with. I'm more blessed than I realized. If I hadn't been so stuck in my own mindset I could have seen it would have been fine. Plus later we all got to hang out anyways because everyone except the sister in Modesto came home. But it's like my mom said next year we will just need to plan things better.

I need a job!

If only it were that easy.....love this picture though hahaha

BLAH!!! I am getting so tired of there being no work! And by no work I mean jobs im qualified for. Sure I could settle and go work fast food or whatever job I can find(which i am so often told to do). And yeah any money is better than NO money. But there comes a time in life when you have to stop and look at the bigger picture. I am 24 and my goal is to move out of my parents house with my husband, find a decent safe place to live, start a family and be financially stable. Am I going to achieve that if I am barely getting minimum wage at Carls Jr.? Maybe if I was in high school and I just needed some cash to go out with my friends or buy gas. But I need to get my foot in the door to a well paying job. And I am starting to think they just simply do not exist in this county. My husband and I are on unemployment which can get us by for bills right now. But that wont last forever. Is it just me or does it seem like there is no point searching anymore? We get 3 newspapers. And I remember when I was younger the job section used to take up 1-2 pages. Now your lucky if you can find 10 jobs advertised. And most of them are either for nursing, telemarketing, and other jobs that require a bachelors or higher to even apply. What about the regular working class? What about the people who's parents couldn't afford to pay their entire way through college? What about those who chose not to go because they don't want to be forever in debt from student loans? What about the average Joe that just needs a job? The hard working average American who may not have a degree but is still just as qualified to and ready and willing to learn? It's like unless you know someone working at the desired job you have no chance. I hope this economy gets better really soon or we may have to move to Canada or something.

Jobs and Babies

Well it's been a while. Still no luck on the job front for Allen and I. Especially because I can't find any legit websites with job postings!!! Craigslist sucks now because it's nothing but scammers. I posted my resume on career builder.com and Monster.com and all I get from them are scam e mails. I got one call from a potential employer interested in me. And it turns out they are a pyramid scheme. Now I have to call and pretend I took another job somewhere so I don't have to deal with them. I check the news paper and so does my mom and there really isn't much if anything. It's really stinks. We want so bad to be stable financially so we can move out and start a family. Yes we actually have been talking about babies. I have been watching a lot of TLC and recently a great friend of mine found out she is pregnant. Plus it just seems like there are a lot of people around me who are. Or have kids already. And I think my biological clock finally switched on. I have had baby fever lately. It's calmed down a bit. But it made me a little weird lol I had a stomach bug and I secretly wished it was because I was prego. Allen admitted later he did too hahah but we both agree we need to be a little further in life than both unemployed and living with my parents before having kids. Part of me is still scared at the idea. I have always fear child birth. And never looked forward to morning sickness. But it wasn't until I watched Allen's sister and a few other people go through a pregnancy that I noticed it's not always a crazy puke fest. His sister never even vomited and she rarely felt sick. And she had twins! I think I need to research to understand it all better. I just hated it when people would say well its so worth it because you have this precious gift when it's all over. Ok but you have to go through all kinds of crazy body changes, Morning sickness, not to mention a crazy painful labor and birth. Am I crazy for not finding that too appealing? lol But it started changing when I kept thinking what would Allen and my kids look like. And then we spent time with our baby nieces and you just can't help but love the feeling of holding and caring for this little person. Ahhhg! hahaha It will happen some day. I am just worried that by the time we can I will be older than I want to be while starting a family. In the mean time first step is finding a decent job. Which is not too easy to come by these days.

Well isn't that just fan freakin tastic

Today I have officially been laid off. I felt it was coming for a while. But I am still pissed. Only because I know people were behind it. The same way they laid off Allen. Was supposedly for down sizing and because he was the last one hired. But we all know it was because certain people were spreading rumors and the president of the company just took their word and let him go. There are several incompetent people he could have laid off. People we have been showing him sufficient evidence that they slack off all the time. But no lay off the hard workers who don't stand around and gossip. If I hadn't of worked there for 2 years and needed a good reference on my resume I would have let him have a piece of my mind. Whatever I know it's for the best. One could easily get trapped there. And I really didn't want to spend the rest of my life there. And i don't even care so much that I don't work there. It's just the principal of the thing. I was a hard worker and actually valued my job. And needed it especially sense Allen gets so little on unemployment. But it's fine. I will also get unemployment so at least we can pay bills. Plus the less of us that work there the closer my mom can get to leaving and finding a place that deserves her.

The Honeymoon

The honeymoon was great! We went all up the coast. We almost didnt have one because we didnt know if we could afford one. But between wedding gift money and money dance money we had enough to plan a great week long honeymoon and still put a good chunk in savings. We owe it all to our friends and family and thank you all so much!
We didnt leave right after the wedding night. We actually stayed the day after the wedding and relaxed and opened gifts. Then the next day we booked hotels and figured out what we were going to do. It took most of the day so we didnt leave for the trip until like 9 or 10 PM. After my mom and I added more decorations to the car :D

We stopped at our first stop in Pismo was a Quality Inn (Formerly the Rose Garden Inn) we only stayed one night so Allen wouldnt have to drive so much in one night. The Quality Inn was lacking some quality lets just say that lol Some examples:

Our Delux ShowerThe random light switch that did nothing.
This is real safeNo latch on the lock?! Good thing you also needed a card key.
I felt a little uneasy there but it was one night and we just slept after we got there anyways.
The next morning we headed to Carmel to a really neat hotel we found Called the Carmel Mission Inn.

Everyone kept telling us how great Carmel was and all the neat shops there were. We get there and I think pretty much everyday we stayed there except the day we were leaving was overcast and freezing! And we only saw a few shops near our hotel. We couldn't figure out what the big deal was. But it didn't matter because we were on our Honeymoon and we loved the hotel. Dressed in hotel bath robes we toasted with the glasses provided in the room because we forgot to bring our toasting flutes from the wedding.

But part was because we didn't want anything to happen to them. Neither of us really care for champagne or wine so we toasted with the bottles of Martineli's Apple Cider my parents got for us. The bottles were dressed like a bride and groom it was cute hahaha

We stayed there probably about three days. But we didn't just stay at the hotel. One day we went to Monteray Bay and we walked around checked out shops and the town. Had a little lunch then he took me to the aquarium. I was pretty excited because I had never been there before. And it did not disappoint. It was really neat! We got to see a lot and there were a lot of good photo opportunities. :)

I especially loved the Sea Horse exhibit. So cute!! After the Aquarium we stopped and got ice cream at a Dreyers/Toll house shop. Is this not the greatest poster? ever!? hahahaha

Day 2 in Carmel consisted of us driving all the way to Cupertino to see the Apple Corporate store. There are items there you can only buy at this store. But unfortunately when we got there they had just closed. Uhg. So we left for out next stop, San Francisco! It was a very long drive but I had never been there before either and it was very different from how I always pictured it. If you are afraid of hights I don't recommend this place haha I was terrified most of the drive. I did see a lot of neat shops and places there and I love all the randomly placed sculptures.

And one bright side was we got to see The Academy of Art University. Which is the school I attended online but never got to finish and have been wanting to go back so bad. But its too expensive. :( But it was really cool being able to see it in person. That evening we ate at the Rainforest cafe. It was so cool!!!!

With all the animatronic animals I felt like I was at Disneyland. However I think the price is a little much for just alright food. We must have paid for the experience lol We checked out a few more shops before going back to Carmel. And Allen was determined to see the Goldengate Bridge but I did not want to actually go on it. Especially because by this time it was dark and very overcast and foggy. And we had already driven some pretty steep and terrifying hills. With all the one way streets it was very hard to navigate the city. We actually almost did end up on the bridge but Allen is an excellent driver so he got us out of it. We did for a brief moment end up right underneath it at one point. So that was all we really needed. Just to see Part of those red beams. We were satisfied and left on the terrifying ride back to Carmel. Where I wanted to kiss the ground when we arrived hahah.
Day 3 was one of the best and worst days. We planned to go to Cupertino again and then go Horseback riding on Pebble Beach. I wanted it to be special because Allen had never ridden a horse before. We started off the morning checking out of our lovely hotel. I was sad to see it go. But we were headed to our destinations before going back to Pismo to stay 2 nights at the Edgewater Inn and Suites. We stopped and got lunch from burger king. Then we headed to Cupertino. That day we were on a tight schedule because to go horseback riding we actually had to make reservations and put down a deposit. So we didnt want to miss our time. We also didnt want to get to the Apple Corporate store too late again because this was our last chance on the trip to see it. So we are driving and Allen starts to feel a little funny. He needs to use the restroom. But he decides to hold it. On the way to Cupertino I start to get this feeling of dejavu. I have been to this area before. Then I notice signs for Garlic World. I remember going there once when I was a kid but I never knew where I was when I went. All I remembered was they had Garlic ice cream. Blech. So I beg Allen for us to go. So even though I know he didn't really want to he still did because he is so kind :D

We get to look around a few mins and we buy some candy and I decide i'm feeling brave and get a small container of chocolate garlic ice cream.

We get to the car and I try it first. First nite is like oh yum chocolate ice cre...oh...oh God. And then just an uber strong wave of garlic flavor. Uhg I don't know why I ate as much as I did. Allen tried some and didn't like it. I couldnt stop for some reason. But after my mouth felt like I was making garlic bread in there I threw it away. I couldn't get the taste out for the longest time. Gross. We get to Cupertino and we agree 30 mins to look around and then we have to rush to Pebble Beach. Allen is starting to feel the urgency of needing to go to the restroom off and on but we don't have time to stop. He looks around the store and plays with the ipad.

We debate on what we might want to get as a a momento of being there. But in the end all we leave with is one Apple Logo Hat. It's like they had shirts and mac accessories and pens. But because the corporate stores are rare, the prices for these just ok items weren't worth it. I didn't see anything that would fit me anyways. And I had just bought a Rainforest Cafe sweater the night before. And we had gone to an Abercrombi and Fitch Outlet at a random mall before San Fran. Everything was half the price of the usual prices. But that just meant instead of $180 for a jacket it was $80 lol So Allen was happy with his hat. Anyways 30 mins was up so we rushed out to head to Pebble Beach which was quite a ways away. Allen didn't want to take the same route we took going to Carmel because it lead us through a long mountain/forest road. So we took another highway. Allen really has to go to the bathroom at this point. And he knows its not the normal kind. He is also feeling sick to his stomach with some pretty nasty sulphur burps. Not a good sign when he gets those. Because he usually gets pretty sick after those come around. But he didn't tell me it was that bad. Also we had absolutely no time to stop. But if I knew it had gotten that bad I would have just rescheduled the reservation to the next day. Things start to get stressful on the road. We hit some heavy traffic. We are going at a snails pace and time is running out! We argued a little of what to do. I kept asking should we reschedule?! But we decided to keep trying. He starts telling me about how he really has to go. I said there should be a bathroom there. Maybe he can go before we ride. But we were already running late! Again I didn't know just how bad it was. It was awful but we finally made it. It was scary because we were also on empty gas wise. And we had to drive some curvy mountain road to get there. If the car stopped while on a curve thats it we were finished. But we made it. It turns out you have to pay to get into this little community. But it was cool we got to the toll booth and the guy saw our Just Married decorations and let us in for free! We found a bathroom but he didnt get a chance to use it because they were waiting for us when we got there. They said we almost missed it. So we hurried up and got situated on our horses. It had been a long time sense I had been on one myself. Felt weird. But the ride was fun! And beautiful!

There were deer everywhere. Even on the beach. And we were litterally a few feet away from them but they were so used to people and horses they weren't too afraid. Our guide spent most of the time talking to the other couple in our group but she did ask us a few questions.

And she told us a little bit about some of the sites on pebble beach. It's crazy some of the houses located there on the beach are like 2 bedroom fixer uppers but because of location they are worth thousands to millions. I could tell Allen was having fun and enjoying the new experience the best he could in his condition. I was worried about him. Because the ride was an hour long. I don't think I would have lasted. A bumpy horseback ride having to really need to use the restroom that bad and not feeling well. Not to mention we weren't sitting on the most high quality saddles. So legs and bums were hurting and falling asleep. I kept asking how he was doing and he said he was fine.

We get back and we pass our car all decorated and the guide asks us. Is that your guys car? we said yeah and she got all excited and congratulated us. And she told the rest of the group. There were several times I wanted to mention it on the ride but she was too busy getting chummy with the other couple and I feel odd making a big deal about myself. I prefer people find things out naturally rather than me blurting it out, out of the blue for attention. So we dismount and Allen rushes to the bathroom. He is in there a good while. Several flushes. When he came out he said he felt bad because he had to flush quite a bit and when he was done he saw a sign that said "These pipes are very old please try not to flush too much." We were both just like uhhh hahah whups and left. It was time to find a gas station because we did not want to drive those roads again on empty. We google map and find one in the pebble beach community. Allen is still not feeling well so we need to move quickly. I am pretty worried about him. And I am worried about running out of gas on the road. We make it to the station and they closed?! at 5pm? What gas station closes at 5???? Also the gas prices where hideous! We concluded it was because it was a community of rich country club and golf club goers who could afford it. We panic a little because this means we have to drive the route known as 17 mile drive which is supposed to be a beautiful scenic route to pleasurably dive and enjoy. We were on an empty tank and we dont know where the nearest gas station is. Allen is feeling sick and he is the driver so if anything happens we are toast. So I pray. I pray for safety and for the little gas we have to help us make it to wherever we end up And for Allen to get well and be able to enjoy the rest of the trip. It was scary but at this point I had to put all my trust in God. And we made it. Some how we made it back to Carmel. But this was a different Carmel than what we saw. We finally made it to the Carmel everyone raved about. It was cute and quaint and we finally understood. However we did not really get a chance to stay and enjoy it. Allen wasn't feeling up to it and we needed gas. We finally find a station and I am thanking the Lord for keeping us safe. Its a very small gas station with a very small mart. Were decided to get some powerade for Allen. We got some snacks and powerades. We even found the white one which I hadnt had sense middle school because they stopped making it. It tasted just how we remembered. We reroute and head off to Pismo. This was the worst part of the drive. Allen is very sick at this point. We keep having to make stops so he can use the restroom. We stopped at a CVS in Salinas. This town was gheeeeetooooo hahah I beleive the post I wrote on facebook when we got there was "Went to salinas to find a target. On the way in we noticed a lady in a pink mumu pushing a shopping cart. As we passed her we also noticed her big grey goatee (0_o). Get us outta here!!! Lol" At the CVS Allen was using the restroom. At this point he was also vomiting as well as the situation. So I stocked up on light foods I knew he could eat when he was feeling better. Easy Mac, top raman, Saltine crackers. I figured I could use the stove or microwave in our new hotel room. We did stop by a near by target so Allen could get a CD he had been wanting but we were there for quite some time while his body continued to be angry at him. When he finally finished there he said he was feeling a little better. That drive wasn't too bad. He started acting like himself again. We listened to the entire album. When things got real bad. It was night time. And we ended up on that mountain road again when he tells me. I think I need to throw up. It caught me off guard because he seemed so much better. He was able to keep down some crackers and water for a good hour or so. I asked ok how soon do you need to. He said any minute. So I quickly had him pull over and I dumped one of the many grocery bags we had accumulated on the trip. And He let it all go. It was hard watching him go through this all day. I just sat and prayed for him while he got sick. I couldn't help but cry after that happened. I felt bad for crying but I felt so bad for him. And it sucked knowing all I could do was just be there for him and not be able to make it stop. When he was done we left the bag in some bushes and I told him to let me drive. He said he was good now and he would just drive. I said lets pray then. So we prayed together and I prayed for healing to his body. And we left. It was scary because it hadn't occurred to me. What if there was no where to pull over in a situation like that. And he started vomiting while driving? We could have gotten into a bad accident. As we kept driving he said he had to spit which scared me because I didnt know if he would be sick again. But he said just spit so I gave him a bag and as I watched him hold the bag to his face while driving I though enough is enough. I made him pull over and I drove the rest of the trip that night. We made it to our hotel in Pismo. I have never been so happy to get to a hotel. Allen rushed to the bathroom in the Lobby while I checked in. He had the car keys still so I had to wait outside until he was done. We go into our room where he goes to the restroom again and vomits more and I just keep praying. He finally came to a point in the night where he is done. And actually gets an appetite. I don't want him eating anything heavy at this point so I suggest easy mac. We look around and realize uhhhh there is no stove or microwave. I thought we had a suite. Turns out I didn't book a suite. So we just had a regular room. I remember there is a microwave in the lobby and so we head over there to cook it. One problem we have no eating utensils and no bowls. So we grabbed the coffee mugs provided in the room and tried to make it in those. The first batch was a mess. Later on we perfected the technique. We had to eat it with wood coffee stirrers that was the closest thing to a utensil we could find. He was able to keep that down all night. And I prayed for him one more time before we went to bed. The next morning he was good as new. Back to his old self. Like nothing had happened. He has had bouts like that before in the past. But we really think this time it was food poisoning. Either from Burger King or His weird meal at the Rainforest Cafe. But this morning he was HUNGRY. With good reason his body rejected every bit of food in his body the day before. I had him start with more easy mac and some crackers. And made him wait. If he kept it down we could go get food. And he did good. All day though I kept bugging him. Every few mins how are? Hows your stomach? Keeping everything down ok? Man I was paranoid. But how could I not be? I watched my husband suffer all day and night with very little I could do for him. I wanted to make sure he was ok. But as the day went on I could see he was fine. We ate some really really really good BBQ food

and we took a walk on the beach because it was literally right there. It was like parking lot to our hotel, cross the street, then your on the beach.

We really took it easy that day. Day 2 there was about the same. We took a dip in the pool which was cool because you could see the ocean but your not getting sandy or touching seaweed with your feets. But the pool was freezing!!!

The pool at the nicer hotel we stayed at had a heated pool and two hot tubs. This pool was freezing and had some sand in it from people jumping in from the beach. And there was one tiny hot tub that said max 4 people. Al and I wanted to go in but the oddest thing happened. One after another the largest heavy set people kept trying to squeeze in. I am not twig myself. But it was like watching clowns packing in to a clown car. And there were clearly more than four of them. One guy was even in there eating a bag of chips. Allen and I just laughed and went back to our room. We had a nice evening and that night our photographer sent us a link and we got to see a few teaser photos from the wedding. I loved all of them! I can't wait for the rest! The next morning we checked out. Headed on our last destination before going home.
We debated going to Solvang. We both really just wanted to go home. But last time we went to Pismo area we drove through Solvang at night when nothing was open and we didn't want to miss out on an opportunity. So we decided to go. On the way we stopped at a little place called Ostrich Land.

Allen had told me about this place. It used to be free to go see and feed. But then they fenced it all off and its now a tourist attraction. But it was still worth it. It wasn't too expensive and so we went and fed Ostriches which is scary but funny at the same time. We also got to see Emu's. They were less forceful.

When we were done we left Ostrich land and headed to Solvang which wasn't too far. This time it was much better. We tried fudge, got a giant soft pretzel with home made cheese. We got gifts for the family in the shops.

It was very nice. Kind of expensive. But nice. We did our best to find deals.

Soon it was time to leave and we headed on the long journey home. It was sad knowing the honeymoon was over. And knowing I had to go to work the next day >:o/ I was not enjoying my job one bit anymore so the week vacation was great. But it was nice to see familiar scenery and I was excited to see the sign with my town name saying it was only a few miles away. On the way home we passed through Ventura and off in the distance you could see the ferris wheel from the County Fair.

I felt like everything was finally ok and I could relax. Overall it was a great Honeymoon. I wish Allen didn't get sick and If I knew it was going to get as bad as it did I would have just let him go to the bathroom before we did anything else. May have even rescheduled the Horseback Riding. But things happened the way they did. And we ended up with an interesting story to tell our family and future children. Maybe on our anniversary we will go Horseback Riding So he can fully enjoy it this time.